Monday, August 22, 2011

{Wedding Planning 101} Service Charges vs Gratuity

{Photo Credit: Gary Guy Photographer, DW Photography, Kelly Hornberger Photography}

Planning a wedding can be a daunting task to couples. Learning the lingo is even more daunting. So we've decided to start our Wedding Planning 101 tips for our fabulous readers. We want to provide you with some tidbits of information that can help the wedding planning process be a more pleasant experience.


{Photo Credit: Gary Guy Photography}

So, let's start with the difference between Service Charges vs. Gratuity. What is the difference? Why is my hotel charging me a Service Charge? Do I still have to tip the hotel staff if I'm already being charged a Service Charge? These are one of the many questions we get asked by our clients.

What is a Service Charge?
A Service Charge is a mandatory and automatic {pre-determined} fee that is typically added to your hotel or caterer contract for the service personnel. Just to give you an idea: Most hotels in the Houston and surrounding areas charge a Service Charge {ranging anywhere from 18% - 24%} on their Food and Beverage {F&B} contract. A Service Charge is not to be confused with a Gratuity. In the State of Texas, taxes are applicable to the Service Charge, so please remember to include this when creating your budget.

So what is included in the Service Charge?
How the Service Charge is broken down will vary from hotel to hotel {or caterer}, so don't be afraid to ask for an itemized breakdown. In general, the Service Charge offsets the hotel/caterer’s labor and administration costs, such as dishwashing, packing for your event, travel time to and from your event, ballroom/facility maintenance and so forth. Keep in mind, the Service charge DOES NOT equate to a Gratuity; therefore, it DOES NOT cover the gratuities for the wait staff {unless specifically noted by your caterer}.


{Photo Credit: DW Photography}

Service charges are NOT commonly billed by your other vendors {ie: photographers, videographers, officiants, etc.}, as the bulk of their entire business is a service...a service you have already hired them to provide you.

When you receive a proposal from a caterer or hotel/banquet facility, you will more than likely note a price per person, and notice a "++" after the price per person. What does this mean to you? Let's say your price per person at any given Houston hotel is $65.00++. As mentioned before, your Service Charges will range anywhere from 18% - 24%, depending on the venue/banquet facility/caterer. In Houston, Sales Tax for food and beverage is 8.25%. So, how do you decipher your total? Your cost per person is $65.00 "plus" a Service Charge of, let's say, 21%, "plus" Sales Tax of 8.25%.

What is a Gratuity?
A gratuity {also known as a tip} is a voluntary amount of money given in exchange for a service performed. For example -- We typically tip our waitstaff or our hair stylist for great service. Gratuity to the staff is soley at your discretion. If you are working with a caterer, they may ask that you tip them upfront {as they do the hardest physical labor on your wedding day, and should be compensated accordingly}. In the event you feel uncomfortable providing the gratuity ahead of time, you can do so at the end of the event {or have your planner/coordinator} provide the gratuity at the close of the event {normally in the form of cash or a check}. Do keep in mind, that while Gratuities are not required, it is in good etiquette to do so.


So there you have it folks. I hope this answers most of your questions on the difference of Service Charges vs Gratuity. Stay tuned for our next Wedding Planning 101 post when we discuss the etiquette of gratuities.

Happy Planning!

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Wednesday, August 17, 2011

{Wedding Tips} Houston We Have A Problem!!!

{Artwork & Photo Credit: B H L D N Website}

Yes, Houston, we have a problem...but a GOOD ONE! B H L D N is FINALLY here in Houston and that poses a HUGE problem on my bank account! I want to just live there and play with all the pretty dresses, all the pretty shoes and don on some GORGEOUS accessories! Yes...they have it all!



Now, let me just say that B H L D N isn't your typical or traditional wedding boutique. So ladies and gents, if you are wanting a traditional look, this may not be your cup of tea. What I have learned is that most couples believe to be "traditional" but when presented with "outside the box" ideas and looks, they get completely excited! So...the good news is, B H L D N is a place you can get excited about, get your creative juices flowing and allow you to create a beautiful and unique style perfect...just for you!



Oh..did I hear you say you've not heard of B H L D N???? GASP! Well, let me introduce you! I've provided you with a snippet off their website, just for your reading pleasure:

An understated word with significant meaning charmed us. And so began, BHLDN.

Inspired by the Dutch word for “to keep,” as well as countless tales from family and friends of the extraordinary weddings they’d been part of, we began dreaming up something new.

Our roots are with Anthropologie, so a passion for experience and creating one-of-a-kind moments runs deep. But our offering speaks more to the not-so-everyday occasions—ours is a voice that celebrates a woman’s most anticipated milestones. And one that gives tradition a twist.

We want, more than anything, to help a woman create an event that reflects her own unique perspective… to a tee. We want to give a bride that edit she’s been searching for—with heirloom-quality wedding gowns, artisanal hair adornments, footwear, and lingerie. And we want happy bridesmaids—in mix-and-match frocks with rich hues and unexpected details.

But it goes beyond the dress. Our goal, and the reason we drape, fold, bustle, and stitch, is to start a conversation with our customer—to build a resource where she can come to find inspiration and to share with those closest to her, as well as our broader coterie. BHLDN’s story is unfolding; and we’ll look to our customer for cues and guidance going forward.

There are no checkboxes. No fill-in-the-blanks. On the contrary, we think a moment should be as layered and dimensional as the woman standing within it.

Be you. Be loved. BHLDN

So, now that you are familiar with B H L D N, you can now understand my giddiness and excitement...so are you with me???


This is my favorite dress to date! Drooooool!

B H L D N invited an exclusive group of people to attend their Vendor brunch, which was held today. We were honored to be on this list and so excited to have the chance to touch and feel these pretty things...not just drool over, as I have online for a while now. :)

B H L D N officially opens their doors to Houston, tomorrow, August 18th. How exciting! I will be back tomorrow! Today just wasn't enough!

Brides and grooms...now that you are engaged, it's time to start the planning! Allow us the opportunity to guide you into the wonderful world of planning, and let's take a trip to B H L D N and have some fun!


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Friday, August 12, 2011

{Wedding Tips} Honeysuckle for Spring & Summer

{Written by Cortney Stanchfield; Inspiration Board Credit: Cortney, A Day To Remember}

Hello, it's me Cortney again and I am back and excited to talk a little more about wedding trend colors. In my initial post, we introduced Pantone's Honeysuckle and its versatility with navy blue and grey for the Fall and Winter seasons. Well, even though Fall and Winter are my favorite seasons, it is time to move onto Spring and Summer.

I am sure that you newly engaged couples out there are anxiously awaiting to use this color for your 2012 wedding, so let's get started! The good thing is that Honeysuckle is such a versatile color and can be used for all seasons. Playing with colors, two accent colors that would play nicely are ivory and yellow! Imagine Honeysuckle with ivory for a romantic spring affair or pair it with a bright yellow for a flirty summer occasion!



Personally, Honeysuckle is more eye catching if you use it sparingly. Honeysuckle is a warm hue that will be sure to compliment any color you choose to pair it with; therefore, don't be scared to experiment with it and place it with a color that fits your personal style.

Forecasted for 2012: romantic wedding bouquets, so, use ivory flowers such as peonies and pair them with a light shade of Honeysuckle such as a deep pink Oriental Lily or a hot pink French Tulip. Add in small details such as pearls, creating the perfect ultra romantic bouquet. Want to go with a fun and flirty bouquet? Pair some fun yellow Billy Balls with varying pink shades of Gerbera Daisies and you will have yourself the perfect summer bouquet.



If you choose to have Honeysuckle as a major player of your color palette, then think about incorporating it into your stationery. This will be the perfect way to introduce your brave color for your wedding!

Since Honeysuckle is a really girly color, let your man have his fun with the Groom's cake, which is always the Southern tradition! This cake is all about his interests, so let him have fun with it and go crazy!

Well again it has been a pleasure, thank you again for taking the time to read my blog entry. I am super excited to start on my next blog post, so again, stayed tuned. I will be back! :)


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Friday, August 5, 2011

{Wedding Tips} Honeysuckle for Fall & Winter

{Written by Cortney Stanchfield; Inspiration Board Credit: Cortney, A Day To Remember}

My name is Cortney and I'm thrilled to be the newest intern for the A Day To Remember team! I recently moved here from Historic Savannah, Georgia in October of last year therefore I will always be a Georgia Peach at heart! :) I am currently working as a Bridal Registry Consultant and I fell in love with working with Brides! They continue to make me happy and I hope to work with them for many years to come!

So, as my first blog entry, I'd like to chat a little bit about colors, to be more specific, wedding trend colors. As you may recall, Pantone declared Honeysuckle as the Color of the Year for 2011.

Honeysuckle is a stimulating reddish-pink color, a vibrant shade, that if used right and if you are brave enough, it can be used as the main color; however, it can be very striking if you let it play the role of the accent color. When I sit back and fantasize about my wedding, I see ivory and grey, but that's not to say that adding a touch of Honeysuckle wouldn't spice things up a bit! Honeysuckle is such a versatile color, and with the right mix of pink shades, it can move from light to dark.

Since summer will soon be coming to an end, let's chat about the Fall and/or Winter colors using Honeysuckle. The reddish-pink paired with a Charcoal Grey or a Navy Blue makes the perfect chic pairing for either a Fall or Winter wedding. Since these colors are so dark, use touches of the Honeysuckle to brighten them up. A perfect example would be to use Grey or Navy linens and then for your centerpieces incorporate different shades of Honeysuckle to help brighten up the table. Some great flowers you can find in this beautiful shade, and this time of year, include roses, orchids and mini calla lilies.



Using Honeysuckle as your accent color will be sure to make every detail POP! For example, a popular wedding trend for this year is hair pieces, which includes flowers, head bands and feathers. The daring bride who loves pink can make a statement by wearing a wonderful hair piece, be it feathers or a gorgeous flower. You can also use this reddish-pink to help other accessories to stand out, like a charming clutch or a snazzy pair of heels. Some other small details in your wedding, where you can use this delightful color includes that delicious signature drink or the stationery {think menu card, escort and place cards}.



So, I saved the best for last: the delectable cupcake. The most darling statement for your wedding, a sweet statement of a delicious strawberry cupcake, topped with an oh so sweet Honeysuckle colored butter creme icing. Mmmm!

What do you think of Pantone's Honeysuckle? Are you using/did you use it in your wedding? Let us know what colors you've chosen and why, as we would LOVE to hear from you!

I want to thank all of you for taking the time to read my very first blog entry. Be sure to check back with me soon, because I am excited to announce that there will be many more to come! :) Stay tuned!

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Monday, July 18, 2011

{Bridal Event} Something Borrowed, Something Blues

{Artwork Credit: House of Blues|Live Nation}

Don't miss THE most rockin' Bridal Event of the year! Meet Houston's finest Wedding Professionals, enjoy light bites & cocktails, score a fab Bridal Swag Bag and be entered to win AMAZING prizes, all at the most unique wedding venue in Houston...HOUSE OF BLUES!


ROCK YOUR WEDDING OUT WITH HOUSE OF BLUES!

August 11, 2011
5:00 p.m. with your VIP Ticket
6:00 p.m. for General Admission

Mix & Mingle with Houston's Finest Wedding Professionals including:
A Day To Remember | Divisi Strings | Houston Bride's Magazine | Hight Cigar | mia bridal couture | Monkey Tree Photography & Funky Monkey Photobooth | Steve Lee Photography | The Perfect Face | Think Studio Event Design | Tre Spa Salon ...AND MORE!

Enjoy Cocktails + Light Bites + Cake Tastings in The Bronze Peacock AND Foundation Room.

*** 7:30 p.m. FASHION SHOW ***
featuring mia bridal couture in The Music Hall.
Prize drawing will conclude the festivities in The Music Hall, with prizes including FREE items for your wedding, Tickets to your favorite shows at House of Blues, Foundation Room Membership, and MUCH MORE!

*** 8:30 p.m. AFTER PARTY ***
in The Foundation Room
Drink Specials | DJ | Wedding Professionals help YOU plan your big day!


$15 pre-sale tickets
$20 tickets at the door
{walk away with a fabulous Swag Bag}
$25 VIP tickets {includes early entry and fabulous Deluxe Swag Bag}
Grooms FREE tickets + here's a treat for you:
Groom's Lounge will be open with Cigar Bar & Whiskey Tastings throughout the show.

PURCHASE YOUR TICKETS HERE!

Questions? Contact Lauren MacQueen
laurenmacqueen@livenation.​com

Special THANKS to presenting sponsor Houston Brides Magazine and Model Sponsor Neal Hamil Agency.

We do have some tickets available at NO COST to you! If you'd like tickets, please email us at info@daytoremember.net, with the subject heading: "I Want to Rock my Wedding!"

This is truly an event you DON'T WANT TO MISS!


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